Testifying in a family law case can be a nerve-wracking experience. However, understanding the dynamics and adhering to certain rules can significantly enhance your performance on the stand. Whether you're a party in the case or a witness, these 15 rules for testifying can help you navigate the process more effectively:
Answer the Specific Question: Stay focused on the question asked. Respond only to what is directly inquired, avoiding providing more information than necessary.
Utilize the Nine-Magic-Word Answer: When asked if you've provided all relevant information, reply with, "That is all that I can recall at this time." This leaves room for additional input if you remember crucial details later.
Contemplate the Query: Take your time before responding to each question. Breathe and deliberate before formulating your answer.
Substantiate Conclusions with Facts: When presenting conclusions, back them with factual evidence. If asked about the value of a possession, such as a car, provide the rationale behind your assessment.
Adhere to the Approximation Rule: If uncertain about specific dates or numbers, use "approximately." This flexibility allows for accuracy in follow-up responses.
Avoid Guessing: Never offer speculative answers without clarifying that you are estimating. Present facts accurately to maintain your credibility.
Refrain from "Never" and "Always" Statements: Generalized absolutes are rarely accurate. Avoid making rigid claims that can be disproven.
Maintain Professionalism and Confidence: Stay composed and courteous throughout the testimony. Refrain from arguing, raising your voice, or exhibiting negative gestures.
Listen Fully Before Responding: Listen to the entire question before formulating your answer. This prevents misinterpretation and ensures you provide a relevant response.
Politely Address Interruptions: If interrupted during your response, calmly state, "I am sorry, I did not finish answering the first question," before continuing your answer.
Seek Clarification if Needed: If a question is unclear, request clarification or ask for the question to be repeated. Avoid overusing this strategy, as it can be perceived as evasive.
Embrace Politeness at All Times: Display politeness and grace in your demeanor, even in the face of opposing counsel's behavior.
Engage with the Judge: Direct your responses towards the judge, maintaining eye contact to establish a confident presence.
Dress Professionally: Treat the testimony like a job interview. Choose attire that conveys professionalism and seriousness, aligning with legal standards.
Honesty is Key: Always tell the truth during your testimony. Honesty builds trust and credibility, both of which are vital in family law cases.
By internalizing and applying these 15 rules, you can approach testifying in a family law case with greater confidence and competence. Remember, this is your opportunity to present your side of the story accurately and effectively.
Of course, everyone’s case is unique and requires an individual assessment by an attorney. Please call the attorneys at The Schmook Law Firm at (918) 505-4870 if you have any specific questions or concerns regarding your case.
